Are we all saddists? Do we choose to feel pain? Do we settle and wait because we enjoy painful relationships? Maybe I don’t know what love is. Do we have low self-esteem when we settle? Do we feel unworthy of love? Is that why some of us lower or standards or want to fix the men we date? Why do we obsess over every detail in relationships?
I never thought that losing someone would hurt like it would but it did. Should we numb ourselves by our experiences so that we may never feel that kind of pain again?